Frequently Asked Questions
I have not been matched with a student mentee. What do I do?
Be
patient! The Alumni Mentoring Program allows students to select their own mentor by viewing the
biography forms submitted by mentors. Students make their selections
year ‘round and new participants join the program every week.
I was not matched, but another alum has two mentees– what happened?
Student
participants select their own mentor; the Alumni Mentoring Program staff do not assign
mentors to students. If you have not been matched, don’t despair!
Students make their selection year round. Also, because of their career
field, some mentors are much more popular than others. You can also
review and revise your biography. Be sure that you complete all the
requested information, including hobbies and activities. This is the
only chance that students can find out about you, so the more
information you provide, the better.
My mentee is not returning my phone calls / email.
Please
contact the Alumni Mentoring Program staff, and we will
assist you in contacting your mentee. We can also re-open your
biography for other students to view and select you as their mentor.
I’m not getting any announcements from the Alumni Mentoring Program.
Drop us an email or phone us with your updated address, phone and email
information. Information will be updated into the database within 24
hours of receipt.
TIPS FOR MENTORS: COMMUNICATING WITH YOUR MENTEE
1. Ask questions!
2. Be clear and specific about your respective needs.
3. Be open and honest about your feelings.
4. Recognize that each
individual sees things from a different point of view.
5. Accept and
respect the difference in opinions.
6. Maintain eye contact when
meeting in person.
7. Listen and learn.
8. Allow time to talk with your
mentee without interruptions.
9. Show an interest in what he or she has
to say.
10. Listen for feeling and tone in speech, not just the words.