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About Me

MeI am the oldest of three girls in a family of mixed heritage.  My mother is from Venezuela, and my father is from Washington State.  I never considered myself multicultural or thought about how my multicultural background would affect me until I was much older.  I could never figure out as a child if I was supposed to check the "White" or "Hispanic" box, so routinely checked both.  I am not "other."

I graduated from Sumner High School in 1998 knowing that I liked working with people, but unsure what I wanted to be when I grew up.  Throughout my high school tenure, I was heavily involved in theater and music, dedicating my time to after school plays and jazz choir as well as concert choir and my normal curriculum.  The thought of nursing, while I thought was interesting, did not seem a career choice.

Forsaking higher education for a job, I worked in the restaurant industry until I turned 21, where I then became a beverage server at a casino.  I did not consider this a career, but enjoyed the fast paced environment and customer service.  This is where I met my husband. 

From the time my water broke to the time my daughter was born, 34 hours past. I remember the last nurse before I was dilated enough to begin to push, and wishing she would stay.  The next nurse who came in truly made my experience memorable.  She was unsympathetic, brusque, and to me a little lax about safety.  As she was changing my IV, she got air into the line.  I panicked, and she brushed me off.  "Oh, don't worry about it."  She told me.  I had difficulty feeling contractions due to my epidural, and the nurse was frustrated that I couldn't read the squiggly lines to know when I should push right.  As a patient the feeling I got was not one of comfort or support, but of worry, frustration, and being too stupid to be in labor. 

From that moment, I decided that I never wanted anyone to feel the way I had.  Medical care for the patient can be an overwhelming experience.  The nurse can make a situation a good experience, or one of the worst of your life.  Filled with a purpose, I went back to college to begin my education in the field of nursing.

Family

The BabiesThese are the people who inspire me day to day. Without my husband's support, both emotionally and financially, I would never be able to have gone back to school. 

My children Leilani and Darrian are also big inspirations in my life.  Though I am not their biological mother, I love them like my own.  They are true survivors, and are able to be happy and joyous through much adversity. 

My younger two, Maile and Daniel are the true catalysts for change in my life.  I have learned selfless love, and the joy of caring for others through them.  I have never found anything more rewarding than my children.  They have made me a better person and it is humbling the absolute trust they place in me.

All my kids have also taught me that patience is a virtue, that prioritizing care is necessary for order, and clustering care is essential to finish tasks.  I look forward to teaching them by example, and to show that serving others is rewarding.


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When I was a child, I spoke like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child; when I became an adult, I put an end to childish ways. I Corinthians 13:11