Contrary to prevailing myths, a victim cannot prevent sexual assault
from being perpetrated against her/him. However, personal safety planning can help reduce the factors that increase one's vulnerability to
sexual violence.
Plan for your safety by:
Trust your gut feelings. If you feel uncomfortable in a situation, leave.
Travel in groups. At parties and social situations, arrive with friends and keep an eye out for one another. Go home together, rather than with someone you just met or do not know well.
Know how much alcohol you can handle. Be particularly cautious during the first few weeks on campus, when you can be an easy target by going to parties and drinking too heavily.
Decide how far you're prepared to go in a sexual situation and communicate your limits. Don't expect your partner to know or guess.
Be assertive. If you don't want sex, say "No."
If you're unclear of what your partner wants, ask.
Remember that "no" means "no," no matter what the tone of voice or body language indicates.
Never accept or drink a beverage you did not pour or you did not watch being poured. It could be drugged or spiked. If you walk away from your beverage, get a new drink.
Avoid relationships with someone who belittles you or talks negatively about women in general.
